In India, birthdays have turned into massive spectacles with celebrity gigs, luxury decor, and expensive catering. One side argues it is a once-a-year celebration to honor a person and create memories. The other side says it is pure ego and a waste of money that could be used for charity or family needs. Critics call it social media vanity, while hosts say they are simply enjoying their life. Is it a healthy way to celebrate, or a toxic display of wealth that alienates friends and family?